yes, it’s true.  in the last 2 ½ years since my youngest was born - i have lost about 400 lbs and counting.  of course, if we ARE counting, then that means i also must admit that i have also gained about 393 lbs, thus leaving me with the same ol’ 7 lbs fluctuating about for the last two plus years.  now, the problem isn’t me (of course not!) – it’s saturdays. you see, monday-friday, i eat healthy, work out, and am so consumed with work, i rarely have time to snack or overindulge.  but then comes friday night.  we usually end up bringing food in, and as a ‘reward’ for my diligence and tough work week, i always get a hearty meal with the intention of saving half for later.  but later never comes…because i never end up saving half my meal!  then i end up going to sleep feeling full and satisfied and next thing you know – hello saturday!  now i don’t know about you, but saturdays in this modern mama’s household is usually full of kids birthday parties, barbeques, and getting together with friends and family – many times, all in the same day!  and of course, all these events revolve around food. good food…but BAD food, if you get my ever-expanding mid-drift!

so what’s a modern mama to do?!?!  sleep all day saturday to avoid overindulging on the weekends?!  works for me!  three day weekends are another double-edged sword as well – but that is a whole new post since right now i need to go grab some menus to see what’s for dinner tonight…after all – it’s friday and i’ve had a tough week…

earlier this year, the wall street journal had an article on the ’walk of shame‘.  for all of you mama’s out there who work outside the home, especially in professional, salaried roles - you know exactly what i am referring to… it is that walk that you have to make from your workplace’s entrance all the way to your office or cubicle, passing all your coworkers who are busy working already - and then again, having to walk BACK at the end of ‘your’ day.  i myself do the walk of shame on my way in to the office after dropping the kids off at daycare - usually getting in around 9am, then i leave before 4:45pm to be sure i can beat traffic, pick the boys up at a decent hour and then be able to spend time with them at home before their bedtime….and those are only on the days that i actually make it IN to the office and not have to telecommute or have pediatrician, dentist, school events, etc to attend with my kids!  of course, i am always connected, and am online before and after i get in, but i do get the occasional ‘nice of you to make it in’ comments from time to time, but to me, i really don’t mind because for some reason, i am not ashamed at all of this twice daily walk and the time i put in because i let my work speak for itself.  to me, and many other mamas out there - we are ‘allowed’ this flexibility due to the work we produce on a daily/weekly/yearly basis.  of course there are the other labels that we have to deal with as professionals such as being labeled on the ‘mommy-track’, which some equate to ‘less committed’ in the workplace. read more